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The person who was just as invested in our lives and the decisions we made is now again, hopefully enjoying everlasting comfort while we slug it out down here on our own. Do you rready the moment that you truly felt the change? I mean, the time when you realized that this was it? When you catapulted Lonely senior ready dating match free married to involuntarily single?
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I think there was an audible thud as reality came crashing down on me standing next to the stale cookies that were on sale.
As most of us feel, I would give anything for just one more day, one more conversation with my husband.
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Thank you so much for your comment. There is amazing support out there. My best advice is to just go as slow as you can. I wish I had done that! And I hope this a comfort to you, but after 3 years my good days definitely outnumber the bad. You WILL get through this. It just takes time. Some people have VERY helpful ideas.
Thank you, NLU. Or if you hit the Facebook badge amtch my blog http: Catherine, I can so relate to what you have written. I lost my husband 9 years ago, when i was I can relate to how it feels like the loss of a limb, and the fading pain like the effect of a painkiller. Only someone who has gone through this can understand this feeling, it is hard for others to even comprehend the different emotions and the way in which it effects us.
Thanks for sharing. Thank you for so beautifully voicing what I have been feeling the last couple of weeks. It will be four months tomorrow. The first two months I was still in shock enough to actually believe that I was gonna do this grief thing with no problem. I begin next week with an in-person grief support group reary I would not have made it through these first four months without the amazing online group of widows and widowers I have found.
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I just dont want to. My husband passed away 1 month ago. The shock has worned off and I cry daily. New as well.
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Interesting that I measure absolutely everything on weeks days passed since the horror of his sudden death. Just 5 weeks in, some days actually feel like u are gaining some clarity only to be slammed back into the reality of grief. In and out of the abyss.
Minute by minute hour to hour awaiting the days end just to finally sleep away from the pain. I am 56 years old now. My husband died of a heart attack at age Lonely senior ready dating match free am on disability after I was run over by a car in I have a leg injury and cannot work.
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I search constantly for widow support groups, but there are none in my area the Lehigh Valley in Northeast Pa. I wish I knew what they mean and when I ask them they have no answer.
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The loneliness is unbearable. I understand exactly what you mean. It hits me when I go to a grocery store. I Lonely senior ready dating match free married people bickering and just want to shake them and say stop it, do you realize you have someone? It hits as I ride alone in a car and think if something happens I have no one to call to help. I try different groups but really need a widows group where they truly understand.
Thanks for allowing me to vent. I have now declared that you have hit your limit on bad luck! What a crazy couple of years you have had. I really sympathize with you about being in a group of grievers who are so much older.
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I wish I had better words of wisdom for you. I know that there are some people in their late 40s and 50s and sneior really are an amazing support group. I just really hope you find the support you need.
OMG I feel exactly the same way. I was married for 25 yrs.
It has been 2 yrs. The loneliness sometimes is almost unbearable. Pleople say to move on with you like, be happy and start new.
Easy for them to say especially when they are sitting at home with their spouses. The weekends are the worst. July 4th i became a widow. I am 38 and have 2 pre schoolers. No medical condition, no warning I found my husband dead. I am sure you are in so much shock right now.
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